Men, Emotions, & Terrorism: Breaking Gender Norms, EP 35

In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni interviews James Stamatelos, a certified coach and counterterrorism expert, on the complex issues surrounding masculinity, emotional maturity, and societal pressures. James shares his personal breakdown story and how a friend's support changed his life. Together, Josh and James explore why men often feel like they’re not enough and how societal expectations suppress emotional expression. From the surprising links between terrorism and emotional maturity to breaking down gendered notions of feelings, this discussion uncovers how shame impacts men’s mental health and emotional growth.

 

Discover how curiosity, presence, and acceptance are key to unlocking emotional freedom for men, and why close relationships are vital for emotional resilience. This episode is a must-watch for men seeking a deeper understanding of their emotions and those looking to create safe spaces for men to express their feelings.

🔥 Don’t miss this engaging conversation that challenges everything we thought we knew about masculinity.

Resources:

“Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of Connection” Niobe Way: https://amzn.to/3MEiLa2

“The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself” Michael A. Singer: https://amzn.to/3MXuQHH

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Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction and Guest Background
06:50 - Terrorism & Emotional Maturity: Unlikely Connection
12:51 - What Drives Someone to Terrorism?
18:16 - Societal Pressure and Men's Emotional Health
24:43 - Why Close Relationships Matter for Men
32:51 - Breaking Gender Norms on Emotions
34:39 - Accepting All Forms of Sexuality
36:21 - How Masculinity Boxes Men In
39:10 - The Power of Curiosity in Emotional Growth
41:00 - Giving Yourself Permission to Feel
44:27 - Staying Curious: Emotional Health Tips
47:00 - Understanding the Positive Intent of Your Emotions
48:55 - Reflecting on & Expressing Feelings
53:23 - Presence & Acceptance in Supporting Others
57:25 - Creating Safe Spaces for Men's Emotional Expression